Self disclosure and online dating
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Sidney Jourard Most people think that online dating is a game of looks and only the attractive ones stand a chance.
As Altman and Taylor note, "People seem to possess very sensitive tuning mechanisms which enable them to program carefully their interpersonal relationships." Third, relational development could move backward, resulting in de-penetration and dissolution.
For example, after prolonged and fierce fights, a couple who originally planned to get married may decide to break up and turn to be strangers ultimately.
It enables individuals to know each other and plays a crucial role in determining how far a relationship can go, because gradual exploration of mutual selves is essential in the process of social penetration.
In the case of online dating, the key to glue someone onto your profile in the first seven seconds and maybe feel persuaded to send you an invite, lies in those few lines you choose to reveal about yourself in your ‘My Story’ section. Adding a brief description about yourself, we believe is like self-disclosure.
This theory is also guided by the assumptions that relationship development is systematic and predictable.
Through self-disclosure, relationships development follows particular trajectory, moving from superficial layers of exchanges to more intimate ones.
While we can’t completely discard the fact that looks matter, what also needs equal and more consideration is how one speaks, which not only throws light on their language skills, but tells a lot about their intellect, sense of humor and their overall personality.
Words hold more power than the person who uses them.